The Document Says So

For parents whose order is clear and still isn’t being followed

It’s clear. It’s not happening.

Two documents and a record template, so you can tell an enforcement problem from a drafting problem and walk into a consult with a pattern on paper, not a story in your head.

One month the money just doesn’t show up. Or the exchange doesn’t happen. Or the thing the document plainly requires simply stops, without announcement, and there’s no obvious person to call.

Two different problems, and only one of them is enforcement. Mixing them up costs months.

A few things inside

  • The out-loud test. Read the provision to someone who doesn’t know either of you. If they ask a clarifying question, enforcement may be the wrong tool.
  • Pattern versus incident. What a pattern looks like on paper, and what tends to be needed to support a request.
  • Unpaid support doesn’t sit still. How accrual and arrears generally work, and why people are surprised in both directions years later.
  • The six-column log. Date, what the order requires, what was supposed to happen, what happened, how you know, and what it cost you.

What you get

It Says They Have To. They Aren’t. (PDF + editable Word)The enforcement organizer. Thirteen worksheets for sorting ambiguity from non-compliance and building the pattern into something readable, with the realistic sequence of steps.
Nobody Told Me There Was a System (PDF + editable Word)How child support collection actually works, what the agency does and doesn’t do, what to ask before opening a case, and what happens to an obligation nobody is tracking.
A contemporaneous record templateSo the log you start tonight is usable later.

Bought separately: $54  ·  Together: $37  ·  You save $17

Two documents + record template · PDF + editable Word · Instant download · $37

This may fit if

  • The order is clear and one household isn’t following it
  • Support has stopped, or has been irregular long enough that you’ve lost track
  • You want to start building a record before you decide anything

What this is not: legal advice, a motion for contempt or enforcement, debt collection, a calculation of arrears in your case, or a guarantee of any outcome. It’s a starting point to bring to a licensed attorney. Created by a parent who navigated the family court system, sold by ValuED Sales LLC dba May Divorce Be With You.

Read before purchase

This is an educational publication, not legal advice. The author is not an attorney. Purchase does not create an attorney-client relationship, and no information shared with the seller is protected by attorney-client privilege. These are preparation and question documents, not templates and not court-ready filings. The procedures the author has followed most closely are in Utah; family law is state law and varies significantly. An attorney licensed in your state is the only person who can tell you what applies.

Do not use this as your starting point if any of the following applies: domestic violence; an active protective order; substance abuse affecting parenting; CPS or DCFS involvement; abuse allegations, substantiated or not; an active mental health crisis; international parental abduction risk; significant special needs; complex finances or hidden-asset concerns; or active parental alienation. In any of those situations, go directly to a licensed family law attorney. If a move by either parent is part of your question, that is an attorney conversation first.

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. Free, confidential, 24 hours a day. In immediate danger: 911, always.

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Put the money side on paper tooA shared-expense ledger for what was owed, what was paid, and when. If support or shared costs are part of what isn't being followed, this is where the dates and amounts live. Instant download.
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