You've seen the stack of papers on their kitchen table.

Give them a place to start. They choose what fits: short video lessons and printable binders for where things stand today, what they have, and what to ask. You give it. They open it when they're ready.

"If someone had stepped up in this way for me, it would have meant more than I could have shared. Thank you for being that person for someone."Shelly Ruff, founder

What they may not have yet

One place for the documents an attorney or mediator will ask for.
Their questions written down and ranked before the first appointment.
A plan for the workday: what to say, to whom, and what can wait.
A page for what they're not deciding this month.
Pages they can fill in at 10 p.m. with a pencil. "I don't know yet" counts.

Choose an amount

$297Start Where You Are: the full printable binder (eleven sections and twelve reference files), short video lessons, and the 30-minute Quick Start. Redeem by December 13 to join the live work sessions with Shelly on December 3 and 17 at 6 pm MT, replays included. A $297 gift always covers it, even after the price goes up on January 1. See what’s inside → $297The Divorce Clarity System: a guided course for building a parenting plan. See what’s inside → $247One Fell Swoop: the complete library, ten folders of guides, checklists and workbooks, from before filing through after the order. See what’s inside →

Gift amounts match these prices. They pick what fits when they redeem, so you don't have to guess. Each link opens in a new tab, so this page stays open.

How it works

Choose an amount below.
Send it to their email on the day you pick, with a note in your own words. Or choose "Myself" and hand it over: in a card, in a text, at the table. Gift emails can land in Promotions or Spam, so if you send it to them, you may want to tell them to look for it.
They choose what fits, and enter the code at checkout. The code doesn't expire.

Before you send it to their email: only send to an inbox they alone read. The subject line doesn't say "divorce," but the sender address does ([email protected]). If anyone else could see their email, choose "Myself" and hand it over in person.

What you'll see

Nothing they write. You get a receipt. They sign in with their own email, and their pages stay theirs.

Course access runs at least 12 months from the day they sign up. All sales are final. Card statement reads VALUED SALES MDBWY. If a code won't work or a file won't open, email [email protected] and we'll fix it.

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Educational material only. Not legal advice. The author is not an attorney. If safety is any part of their situation, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.